It is difficult to absolutely vouch for anyone. You really can’t know a person all of the time because whether we like it or not, people change.
I used to believe people never changed and when someone told me they’d change for the better, I’d just twitch my nose at them and say “yea, right”.
Now, I’m not so sure. I’ve seen people change so drastically I wonder if I ever knew them at all. The ones who change for the better give me hope. The ones who change for the worse have me wondering.
I say I am confused because I wonder if we actually truly change or if initially we were how we are now but put on an act until we could no longer sustain the pretence?