gender equal opportunity or representation

La movement

It took me a while to understand the concept of feminism because the way it was initially portrayed to me, I reckoned what people labelled as feminism was fundamental human rights. I still believe that its fundamental human rights but also enlightening everyone of the fact that segregating anyone on the basis of gender is an exercise in ignorance and borderline stupidity. The feminism movement … Continue reading La movement


Happy or not, here I come!

For whatever reason, many people think I am a happy, clappy, cheery person. Well, I don’t blame them. My social media feed deceives people. I have my periods of sadness and insecurities though. On a particular period, I was so sad and really needed to talk to someone. I called my friend in Boston with no regard to the time difference and started moaning about … Continue reading Happy or not, here I come!


What do I bring to the table?

I hardly write about relationship issues simply because I am no relationship expert but these days, random articles pop up about what women are looking for in men; what men want in a woman…it is driving me crazy!

As these issues come up on my social media feed a lot, I have decided to lend my voice to this discussion

I think many of us approach this issue the wrong way.

It’s not generally about what you want in a man/ woman. It’s about what you can offer.

Hear me out.

In business relationships or in the work place, potential business partners, investors and employers (i.e. potentials) firstly… Continue reading What do I bring to the table?


I did not think this through

Sometimes, I do not understand how I get myself into situations like these. I decided to make myself spicy beef sauce from scratch. This involves finely dicing the tatashe (scotch bonnets) and onions, making tomato paste and cooking the beef. I made the delicious sauce and ate it with cous cous, sweet corn and peas. I went straight to food heaven after that sumptuous meal. … Continue reading I did not think this through